Thursday, February 16, 2012

Bumping It Up Day #1

Here's the outfit that got me the comment about expecting multiples. The same day, I went about five bart stops before someone offered me a seat. Maybe I didn't look so bad/big.

Outfit - Twins

J Crew long sleeve top
$50 - jcrew.com

Banana Republic texture coat
$190 - bananarepublic.gap.com

Maternity
$35 - apeainthepod.com

Old navy maternity
oldnavy.gap.com



So today I wore all black. And, hey look! I even added some jewelry.

Bumping it Up

Banana Republic texture coat
$190 - bananarepublic.gap.com

Old navy maternity
$13 - oldnavy.gap.com

Enzo angiolini shoes
$110 - nordstrom.com

Amrita Singh 18k necklace
$24 - amritasingh.com



Polyvore finds prices for these items automatically; I really don't recall how much I paid. Thanks for looking and have a lovely extended weekend.

*Update: I should mention - those leggings from A Pea in the Pod are both really comfortable. However, at 5'2" even those cropped ones are a bit shorter than I like. That BR coat? Biggest regret purchase of the past six months. It pills like crazy and the quality just isn't what I expected.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

crib update

We got $30 back for the mattress. :)

Bump It Up

I woke up feeling frumpy. This resulted in the first few hours of my morning spent browsing and purchasing accessories galore. Then I read up on some pregnancy fashion and learned that I did the exact right thing – dress myself up with accessories to make myself feel better.

I found this article: 35+ Rules of Pregnancy Fashion and at the bottom of the fourth page it talks about looking and feeling frumpy:

"Do you want to look frumpy? That's how you'll be perceived, that's how you'll perceive yourself, and that's how you'll feel."

…and that’s exactly what today feels like. I don’t want to look frumpy but I have not found any pregnancy clothes that are comfortable and stylish. Dresses feel like garbage bags and slacks make me feel like a sausage. Today, I’m wearing a grey dress with a black cardigan and black leggings and was asked, “when are you due? Are you sure there’s only one in there?” Rude.

So now I’m looking forward to “bumping it up” with accessories. Only three months left to go – can’t have the baby blues start now.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Happy Valentine's

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Love, love, love. We love the sweet deal we got on LT’s crib. Our discount was so great that it totally made up for the poor customer service experience we had at Babies R Us. FYI, they’re having their Great Trade-in Event right now.

Last Wednesday we found a crib and dresser that we liked - floor models marked down approximately 30% from original price. Being the bargain guru that he is, Dang decided it was worth asking the store’s assistant manager for an additional discount for the cosmetic imperfections (some swirls and scratches on the side of the crib). With little hesitation she offered us 20% off. Sweet! We could live with the minor scuffs so we put it on hold.

After work on Thursday we picked up an absolutely free highchair via Craiglist and went to trade it in. At the store, Dang tried his luck with the new manager that night and instead of an additional 20% off for the scratches, we received an additional 30% off! Unfortunately, the trade-in has to be one for one and since we only had one high chair to trade in, we could only get 25% off of one item. Want to see the math?


Well, friends, I’m not sure if it’s a glitch in their system, the Scrooge-like customer service rep, or if this is just how they do things around BRU but our deal was even sweeter than the above breakdown. Their math was somehow a little backwards and it ended up giving us a bigger discount. See below.

BUT – it gets even better. We continued to scour through Craiglist for free baby items to trade in. We found a free used car seat and on Saturday when Dang went to pick up the set he was able to get 25% off the dresser as well. So in the end, our deal looks like this:

I have a feeling it’s not over yet. My husband is a little unrelenting when it comes to obvious (to him) opportunities. See that mattress? We paid full price because we didn’t have a regular 20% off coupon. It is now Dang’s next challenge.

Thanks for reading.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Oh Baby

As we continue to prepare for our little bundle of joy, again, I can’t describe how much love I feel for her already. To think there was a moment when I’d considered not having children. A lot of bad things were happening and I mostly wanted to avoid the possibility of having to expose a child to it. Alas, I was convinced otherwise (obviously). And now, now I can’t live without her. We’re shopping for necessities for LT (Little Tran) and it’s unbelievable the amount of research and precaution we’re taking. There’s lots that we’re learning and becoming overwhelmed with but the most important thing I realized is that once you decide to have a kid those mama bear instincts kind of just kick in and you do everything you can to protect and provide for your baby.

We’re currently shopping for strollers, car seats and combo units or what they call “travel systems”. They range from low to high $, light to heavy, simple to air-filled wheels that can have flats (!), etc. etc. These are things I certainly didn’t think about in my twenties and now they rule my world. To be honest, I want someone to just give me a checklist of exactly what to buy and how much to pay. Luckily, Dang’s papa bear instincts have also kicked in and he’s been a lot more diligent about the research part. Notice how in the previous paragraph I said that “we” are researching, “we” are learning and “we” are becoming overwhelmed? It’s mostly Dang researching and learning and me being overwhelmed. Good thing I trust him. And good thing I have veto power. We’re a great team that way. ;)

Here’s what we’re thinking. Dang sent this to me and I approve. Since my doctor says I’m gaining weight too quickly (nine pounds in one month – oh baby!) I need to get movin’ soon after LT is born. The BOB is perfect for that. Decision made, now we need to find a great deal.

*Note: pediatricians do not recommend jogging with a newborn infant. The BOB will just make for smoother walks for us until LT is at least six months.


Baby Carriers